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The Power of Reflection

In previous blogs, I have advocated the use of reflection as a method of creating change. In this blog, I would like to elaborate upon why reflection is such a powerful tool. In my book, I share a quote by a former major league baseball player, Vernon Law…

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Individual Differences Make a Difference

I am sure you have heard the expression “One size fits all.”  Not so in coaching. A coach needs to acknowledge individual differences if he or she is to be effective…

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Creating an Organizational Brain with Teamwork

If you were asked what allows the different systems and appendages of your body to operate in a coordinated manner, you would respond, “the brain.”   Of course you would be right…

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Creating a Context for Executive Coaching Communication

Communication needs to be addressed both for its content and its context.  The major content issues in coaching relate to creating gaps and tension through information acquired from assessments and coaching sessions and then asking probing questions…

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When Delegation Fails: A Case for Change

Contrary to popular thinking, most CEOs do not like to fire people.  They often struggle with holding their associates accountable.  This was the case with one of my coachees…

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Can Delegation Be Coached?

Successful leaders know the importance of delegation.   In my work with CEOs and senior managers in growing organizations, delegation is one of their biggest challenges…

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Control: A common Challenge in Executive Coaching

Coaching is not just about closing gaps and creating tension.  Many coaching challenges can impact performance.  One challenge that most of my executive coachees share is the need to control their workplace and people…

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Sometimes We Need a Partner

One method of managing a liability is to partner with someone who has an asset that complements the liability.  In order for this to happen, we first must be aware of our liability and feel the tension that this creates for us…

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Producing Lasting Change by Reframing

Reframing is the process of changing the lens through which a situation is viewed.  In my experience working with CEOs and senior managers, their challenges are often obscured by their biases…

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Focus on Assets, Manage Liabilities

In my last two coaching blogs, I discussed the concept of a balance sheet applied to coaching.  I ended one blog with an important principle central to coaching…

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Using a Balance Sheet as a Vehicle for Change

 The accounting profession uses balance sheets to identify financial assets and liabilities of a company.  The greater the company’s assets relative to its liabilities, the healthier the company…

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Reflection: A Closer Look at Creating Change

In my last blog, I discussed how reflection can help promote change.  By recalling experiences, the coachee recreates situations that offer clues about how the coachee thought and acted…

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The Process of Coaching – A Case Study

In my previous blog, I described how the coaching process creates tension that, when resolved, leads to change.  I would like to present a case to help illustrate this process…

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